Oasis NC Lake

Social Skills

Our students are bright, intellectually curious learners, with enormous potential. However, their communication and social abilities can affect both their academic success in the classroom, and their social success in the larger community.
We rely on positive, research-based practices in order to develop each student’s full potential for social growth. We emphasize perspective, self-awareness, self-advocacy, flexible thinking, understanding others, peer relations, responsibility, problem resolution, and social expectations.
Social learning and thinking are embedded in the academic curriculum and instruction throughout the day. Key social skills are broken down into more basic components. Students learn how to cooperate and work successfully as group members in a variety of projects and activities. Role-playing, drama, art, and other forms of creative expression are used to facilitate student learning and to practice successful social skills strategies.
Integration and Opportunities for Practice
We believe that one of the best ways to develop social growth is by coaching students through the “teachable moments” that occur naturally each day. Whether in the classroom, during group activities, at lunch, or on the playground, all of our staff are continually working with students to practice skills they are learning. Successful experiences are reinforced, and we help students learn how to “repair” an unsuccessful experience by trying a different approach to produce the desired outcome. Parents and family members are also included as we extend the learning into the home environment.
Because our students often struggle to apply skills they acquire in new environments, we provide them with regular opportunities to practice their social skills in the community. We take full advantage of the wealth of community and cultural resources within walking distance, and around Wilmington. We want our students to develop fluency in their social interactions as they eat out, go to the park, take a field trip, or enjoy extracurricular activities with families and friends. We teach our students how to navigate the unstated rules of society that can be difficult for them to understand.
In order for instruction to be meaningful, we strive to ensure that the skills that students are learning in the classroom transfer across people, places, and situations. Through frequent and consistent communication, teachers and parents are able to cooperate on addressing targeted goals specific to each student. Using each students individualized education plan, we establish a how we will monitor and assess whether students are successful in this transfer of knowledge in their day to day lives.

Our staff is trained to assess students to determine their unique social strengths and challenges so that we can implement the most appropriate and effective strategies. We employ a number of methods to measure social skill acquisition and mastery, such as videotaped self-modeling, portfolios, anecdotal records, checklists and self-recording. Ongoing and accurate assessment is crucial to student growth, and allows us to continually refine and improve upon our program. We actively communicate with parents regarding student progress in social growth areas.
Social Thinking and Learning Assessment

We follow a structured, systematic and thoughtful curriculum that carefully sequences and orders a progression of social skills. We are committed to identifying and creating research-based “best practices” for helping our students learn to successfully interact and communicate with others, and to think flexibly. Some of the instructional strategies and materials we use include:
• Thinking About You, Thinking About Me (Michelle Garcia Winner)
• The Hidden Curriculum (Brenda Smith Myles)
• Be Cool (James Stanfield)
• Skillstreaming (Arnold Goldstein)
• Social Skills Training with Asperger’s Syndrome (Jed Baker)
• Comic Strip Conversations (Carol Gray)
• Incorporating Social Goals in the Classroom (Rebecca Moyes)
Please check out our Social Group Curriculum to see the many skills we teach during the year!  (We are always adding to this list, so check back frequently.)